Marriage...ups or Downs

Wedding: A New Era....

Since last few days I was thinking what I have get after marriage. Since I have lost my job again....I have so much time to spend with the most important person on earth...Me :)

So frnds here is the conclusion....

1) The status

Before: ----before I was married, I was a always cheerful butterfly. In the hostel we friends used to do non-stop chit chat without even looking at the clock.....We could eat lots of maggi without even thinking about nutrients and blah blah. 2 yrs. back I was like an independent bird. My weekdays were also like weekends. 

AFTER: We wait for the weekends. Oh no..not for enjoying themm..Actually we rather can't enjoy them as we have list of things to do. We have to wash the clothes, make something delicious to eat...check the items...talk to family members.

2) The Money

BEFORE: 

My Dad is My ATM...yes this was simple rule....I need money and since I am his daughter, he has to give it to me..

Shopping was best adventyre. Never wait for the Sale season....
AFTER: Money is the most precious thing in life. I have to save every bit of it. I wait for wednesday Bazar at Big Bazar. I just check newspaper for deals at Big Bazar. Levis, BIBA, Lakme Saloons are history now. 

3)  Friends

BEFORE:

Friends are forever......:)

Yes they were and then I got married and life changed.

Friends were before family. If they have even some minute problem, I have to be there. Fun was fun only with friends around.

We are planning Birthday surprises for frnds, picnics with them....overall they were the WORLD.
AFTER:

Friend has an end in it....So, D END

Now love is forever...

I have to be there for my family 24/7. Friends Birthdays are in mobile reminders. Sometimes I even forget to wish them. Their problems are not mine anymore, as I have my own pile. 

4) Future Planning

BEFORE: 

I used enjoy every occasion, each moment. There were no worries about future, bank balance n blah blah...
AFTER: O God...we have to get a home, we have to save every bit of money... petrol prices are going up...n a long list..

But guys....marriage is not just about problems and complaints..it is a beautiful beautiful thing...we care for somebody even more than self..we get a new family too. We feel like a mature person. A person who has to stand by his family at every hurdle. you take responsibility of their happiness. You make them laugh...